The Day My Cold Coffee Saved Me: How I Found My Voice as a Writer
- Lydiah Dola
- Apr 3, 2022
- 1 min read
Updated: Sep 8, 2025

Remember that feeling of being called on in class when you're completely unprepared? That was me, sipping a now-cold coffee and trying not to panic. The assignment: critique a blog post. The problem: I'm a perfectionist, and I hadn't prepared a thing.
My palms were sweating, my mind was blank, and I was silently praying the professor wouldn't call my name. As I listened to my classmates deliver their thoughtful, well-prepared critiques, I was sure I was about to be exposed as an imposter. My cold coffee was my only comfort, a silent witness to my mini-meltdown.
But a strange thing happened. I didn't get called on. I was saved! And in that moment, a new idea was born.

My journey into blogging didn't start with confidence, it started with a caffeine-fueled panic attack. But once I got over my fear, I discovered something amazing: blogging is about sharing your story, not being perfect.
It's about the messy, real, and relatable moments that connect us. It's about finding your voice, even if it's a little shaky at first.
And that's the best part of all. My journey from a stressed student to a passionate writer is proof that you don't need to be an expert to start. You just need to show up and be yourself.
So, what are you waiting for? Your story is ready to be told.
Conversation is king. Content is just something to talk about. ~Cory Doctorow


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